I WILL NOT LOWER MY STANDARD

My random thought, and also my commitment.....

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Though I know I’m getting older

and a lot of people say it’s time to get married

I WILL NOT LOWER MY STANDARD.

Until today, I haven’t met my future husband yet

or I just have not known who is he yet,

but I believe that he is a real Godly man who is worth waiting for (and praying for).

People might say I’m too picky

but I would say, I have to be strictly picky

because I WILL NOT LOWER MY STANDARD.

Married is once in a lifetime decision

A commitment to love,

share my life with him until death separates us

and glorify God all the days of our lives

So, I will not accept any one less than the best that God has for me.

I WILL NOT LOWER MY STANDARD

Although I might have to wait many more years for the right person

to share life, godly home, and God’s vision.

People keep asking and mocking

Friends around me are getting married, have got married, or have a boy/girlfriend

which supposedly created a peer-pressure,

but I won’t be pressured

and I WILL NOT LOWER MY STANDARD by accepting the first fool who come across

or by accepting any born-again christian guy

just because he dares to say ‘I love you’

No no no, it won’t happen

because it requires more than just a gut

I WILL NOT LOWER MY STANDARD, because GOD’S STANDARD IS NOW MINE

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for me, marriage is neither a destination, nor a purpose in life

It is not about me or my future husband

It’s about God and our journey with God

God has to be the center of it all, even from this moment when we haven’t met each other

WARNING!!!: Marriage is neither a solution for your problem, nor an escape from A dissatisfaction of your current condition